Dogs at Play

IMG_7729Play is essential to a dog’s social and mental well-being. Growing recognition of the importance of play is evident in the increasing number of dog parks and daycares, as well as programs like Aimee Sadler’s “Playing for Life” which has revolutionized the experience of dogs in shelters by allowing shelter dogs to play together.

While it is easy to see why socializing is important, in practice it can be challenging to find safe venues in which to socialize your dog.

Daycares and trainers can be pricey, while dog parks can be unpredictable. Reading dogs’ signals can be difficult, especially with growly play styles, and stakes are high where multiple dogs are playing together.

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While there are no absolutes, and every rule has an exception, by watching dog behavior very closely and staying involved, you can choose a play group for your dog and guide your dog towards playing safely.

Each dog is an individual, and not every dog will play well with every other dog. Even as your dog makes recurring friends and you become confident about the type of dogs and play styles she prefers, never assume you know how a play session will go. Your dog is constantly changing, developing, and getting new ideas. Watch closely and keep an open mind to stay one step ahead of behavioral changes.

Dog Language

IMG_5428Dogs press together side by side or butt to butt in a show of solidarity. They lick faces when they are showing friendship or making up for a social misstep. They lower themselves when they are showing submission or apology, and stand over or put their paw or head on dogs in a show of strength and discipline.

Communication displays are constantly changing but always present. If you want a group of dogs closely you will see that they are always talking to one another.

Most positive dog trainers consider positions of power between dogs to be ever-shifting. When a valued resource like a toy or bone is presented, dogs express how highly they desire that item and so determine who should have it. In this way dogs in a group can effectively avoid fights which are dangerous to individuals and harmful to the group.

That said, dogs sometimes grow up without socialization or are by nature more timid or bossy than average. Get to know your dog well to understand her personality and play style.

Don’t be Afraid to Get Involved

Some dogs will never display pushy or aggressively dominant behavior, others will struggle with it and need lots of work. While breed does influence a wide range of behaviors, individuals of any breed may have any personality. Never assume that a dog will act in a particular way because of breed, size, or anything else. Treat each dog as the individual she is.

How to Intervene

IMG_3529Intervene by putting your body between your dog and the dog you are concerned about, by calling your dog, by walking your dog away for some time, distracting with a toy or treat, or whatever works and feels natural for you. The goal should be to find something that can motivate your dog to leave the situation without your physical interference.

Work on callback with your dog as much as possible, as this is the easiest way to intervene and check to ensure that play is not too intense.

Reward well for good callbacks, especially when your dog is immersed in play. Don’t be afraid to push into the group of dogs if your dog doesn’t respond, and don’t hesitate to use your body to push other dogs gently out of your way.

Dogs will respect you for taking their space and will respond by giving space to you and your dog. Never reprimand or punish your dog or any dog for rude behavior during play.

Punishment can’t teach self-control and won’t help your dog resist that specific behavior again, although it may deter her from play altogether or elevate her negative emotional responses.

When to Intervene

Intervene as often as needed so that you feel confident that your dog is playing well and learning good social skills. Following are some things to look for to know that dogs are playing. If in doubt, intervene.

1. Play Bows

IMG_9682Play bows are the quintessential proof that dogs are playing. If both dogs bow, no matter how intense their game sounds, you can feel confident that they are playing.

In the picture both dogs have their ruffs up. Generally, ruffs up is an indicator of potential aggression. Furthermore, these dogs’ play had been noisy and intense up to my taking this picture and after. A clear bow like this, however, showed me that they were playing well, and they never had any issues in the many hours they played together.

Marc Bekoff, while at the University of Colorado, did a study1 showing that dogs are most likely to play bow just before or immediately after performing an especially assertive behavior, such as a bite accompanied by a head shake. This pattern suggests that playing dogs recognize moments when their behavior can be misinterpreted as serious aggression and compensate by reminding their partner, “I’m still playing.” (Smuts & Ward, 2011 ¶3)

2. Breaks and Balance

Dogs have different play styles. Some are growly and like to wrestle, some are yippy and spring around, some just like to run like mad. No matter what the play style, all dogs should stop and initiate play, chase and be chased, and take breaks. Play should have balance. If one dog is always running or chasing, or if no one takes breaks during prolonged intense play, intervene to make sure everyone is enjoying playing.

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3. They Seem Happy

Dogs at play are having fun. They should look like it. They should be frolicking, easily distracted, varying their game and engaging with toys and their environment.  The AKC describes it this way:

  1. A big, silly open-mouthed grin.
  2. Exaggerated, bouncy movement. The dogs are acting silly.
  3. Loud, continuous growling and snarling; again, exaggerated.

 

IMG_1800Do not trust tail wagging as an indication of happiness or intention of play. Dogs wag their tails to show excitement and anxiety, as well as happiness.

Watch your dog’s face, the expression of her eyes and the carriage of her mouth and ears. A relaxed mouth and eyes are good indicators of a happy dog. Ears should move naturally, not be held perpetually laid back.

Excessive yawning or lip licking indicates nervousness, while a high head and tail show confidence. A high, stiff tail and raised ruff indicate insecurity and a dog that may be prone to displaying dominance.

Learn your dog’s communications and play styles by staying involved, and enjoy watching your dog play.

References

Mithers, C. (2017, November 20). One simple change to shelters has made a big difference for at-risk dogs. Las Angeles Magazine Retrieved from http://www.lamag.com/mag-features/dog-shelters/
Smuts, B & Ward, C. (2011). Is your dog’s rough play appropriate? Retrieved from https://thebark.com/content/your-dogs-rough-play-appropriate

Are they playing or fighting? A guide to evaluating rough pup play. (2015). Retrieved from http://www.akc.org/content/dog-training/articles/are-they-playing-or-fighting/

 

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